Finally I’m Changing My Steps

May 15, 2019

Finally I’m Changing My Steps

by , May 15, 2019


STEP 1: Don't Let Your Emotions Take Control Of Your Life


Life can be complicated. And for women in midlife, things can go well for a while, and then, from nowhere, you get stuck in a challenge.

Occasionally such surprise alone is sufficient to throw anyone into a tailspin, ending up losing control and focus. No matter the situation, with a little bit of focus, we all are capable of straightening out and steering our life back on the right track. There is a lot that can set us off our path of choice, but getting your life back is simple in theory. Doing so only necessitates two things: Focus and Goal. Putting both into practice can be harder than it seems. 


Many times, I hear women in midlife complain about their unfulfilled dreams because others are doing their best to ensure they fail. Well, there is always competition; and life itself would be boring without it. The focus is the one thing that is common to every single successful person. As a woman in midlife, it is one thing to know what you want, and it is another to keep the vision alive. I am sure you made several mistakes in the past. You need to stay driven, have a revelation, and find out what you want in life.

In life, you need to sit down and plan how you want to achieve your goals in step by step approach. Once your plan is perfected, your success is all you deserve. Maybe things start steering in the right direction. In some way, you end up lost. You still have a plan, but no longer follow it. You may have missed focus, even if it was only a few seconds. But here you are, discovering what is steering Your life far-off your goal. Just a second of laxity is all it takes, to take your focus off the finish line.

Staying focused for more prolonged periods requires practice. A lot of women fail to realize this aspect and lose focus in the end. The trick is to hold longer and avoid losing attention, and if it happens, always steer yourself back towards the right path. There are several motives why we lose focus, but dropping off your track is never the end of the road; if you spin out of control, grab the wheel, set your sight on where you want to be and move in that direction. You may be unable to straighten out promptly due to all the forces around, working against you. But set your sight and focus locked on the finishing line and you will 100% get there. If you desire success, then you must remain focused. When you maintain steering your life forward your mind will stay clear of its reality providing you get into action, and head on the right path.

Sure, we may exist when things are hard to focus with countless distractions present everywhere, but that is part of the task, you need to resolve it and breakthrough. If you seek other women who became successful through midlife, you will notice they all had Focus and Self-Belief in common. Once you have them, you are halfway there. One of the saddest things these days is wasted talent, and with the way several women dilute their ability and time with bullshit, it seems we would have more “what-ifs” and “could-have-been” in the nearest future.

Learning to steer your life and focus on your goal all comes down to self-discipline, and knowing what the right direction to go is.


STEP 2: Moments of opportunity

Embarrassing moments? Yes, we all have them! Whether it is something unfitting or socially obstinate, I can assure you we all have had our moments. For some, it can be hard to handle, especially if you are an over-thinker, dealing with the emotional outcome can be draining! Over the years, I have found some useful tips and tricks for overcoming embarrassing moments, and it has changed my approach and perspective towards such situations. These tips have impacted me from experience, and I hope they can be helpful to you too.

  • Avoid overthinking: From time to time, we turn out to be so self-conscious and stuck in overthinking, that we create something much more significant than what it is. It is very likely folks around you do not even notice because everyone is so busy with themselves!
  • Enjoy a Good Laugh: A times it is worth being relaxed, own up to your mistake and enjoy a good laugh. You do not have to be so serious about everything! Learn from it, enjoy a good laugh, and move on!
  • Have sympathy for yourself: Ok, yes, it might not sound cool, but for the longest time, we are used to leaving the idea of ‘self-love.’ We often get to hear the quote ‘just love yourself,’ but how is it done? Habitually when we experience some embarrassing moments, we turn out to be our own worst critics filled with feelings of anger, guilt, or shame. This turns out to be damaging when we begin taking in negative thoughts. With time, these impact confidence, and limits you from attaining full potential! You can overcome embarrassing moments by providing some sympathy towards yourself.
  • Mistakes in life do not define you: Some embarrassing moment can feel so disturbing as it remains fixed in your mind. Making some separation between you and the moment is beneficial. Doing something embarrassing is not cool, but never let one moment define you!
  • Reflect about the situation: We never would tell our friend's most nasty things we say to ourselves! Now, apply such compassion and kindness to yourself. Most of all, forgive yourself! It is fine to be a little awkward when having some embarrassing moments. But it is not okay to spend the next few hours or weeks worrying about it. No matter what happens, you should always thoroughly accept and love yourself. By making such positive atmosphere, we own up to stuff and mistakes. This is vital since mistakes are inevitable for growth and learning.


STEP 3: Healing yourself emotionally, physically and spiritually


  • Stop welcoming contrary ideas: To be honest, overthinking is a killer of good ideas and strategy , and it is a waste of energy and time! It can be hard, but you have to let go of pass thing that no longer work. All I am trying to say is avoid entertainment negative thoughts, toxic relationships and old remedies ! They do not deserve your energy and time. Move on! I believe you need a second opinion to heal, A doctor, A friend, or me and I will share a few steps with you.

The most significant tip here is that embarrassing moments are inevitable in life, and while we may not always be prepared for them, we still have control over our thinking and reaction. By producing a more optimistic bond with oneself and electing to hold thought patterns that make you better, these moments can make you a better and stronger woman!

I define Midlifepreneur for me as being in a place where everything in life starts to come together and make sense. My ebook C.L.A.Y.S. Creating life as you see,   says its time to work on all areas Personal, business and spiritual in order to make sense out of the life of a  Midlifepreneur, When you know where your headed to, Why your going and what will be there when you arrive you make ever effort to make it to your destination and you get there so much faster.

The healing of the Midlifepreneur come from working on relationship, communication, fear of failure and frustration, the influences in life with take into our lives, I say now that you have all of the information what’s the next step and I tell you what it is get a mentor, trainer or coach to help you get to the finish line in  Midlifepreneur life.

Emotionally, physical,  spiritual

When we deny the very change that comes with midlife you take away your chances of healing. We know that change if difficulty and new ideal and patterns are hard to welcome in because it carries the unknown. But when we move all the no’s that we have about change the difficulty’s go away we just have to accept chance. Open our eyes and see that without change our mindset stays stuck on it will not help, it wont do any good, What waste the time, But with out change we miss out on and are held back from what could become a new chapter in our lives. It will take courage and a brighter point of view to change paces and accomplish create life as you see.

Women in midlife want to turn life around and start doing new and adventurous things that give them joy and encourages them to get out and share the joy that they now have.

That are no longer living a life of regret and sorrow for what they want or what they have missed in life because midlife is the new place to be and go after what you want in life, Love, Joy, Relationships and whatever your desire is.

Now that the children are gone, toxic friends have been let go, retirement is here and you now have a new attitude about life and love and now that the time is are more than ready for a new next chapter in life, The life that keeps getting better every day making you look better and feel better. 


Feel free to ask questions always to keep yourself headed in the right direction.





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